Looking up my past

 I was appalled and yet not surprised when Sadiq had a conniption over the posting for the Bureau of Statistics.  The British person chose Philip to be head of the department, though he had no degree in statistics.  Sadiq responded by punching him In the nose.  It was a horrible thing to do, and it meant the end of a friendship, a decision that Sadiq would leave Fiji and go back to the U.S.  A few weeks after our baby was born, we did just that.  Of course, we had to borrow the money from my father, as usual.  I was happy at Marist brothers, but that meant nothing.  I remember my friend Roy Allen visited us.  But we could not tell him that our days were numbered.  I also wished that there was someone who could help us, but Sadiq wouldn’t allow it.  The last night we were in Fiji he was roaring drunk and took the baby out in the carseat, with no carrier or any protection.  We were staying with Colleen and Kato, so she realized immediately that the going away was not natural.  When he returned, we had a big fight, but what could we do?  The die was cast.

 

 

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